Another view of marriage.
If you had a husband whose responsibility it was to pay for all your costs, provide you with suitable housing, pay for all your children's expenses, provide you with social recreation as well as treat you kindly, patiently and with justice, would you cooperate with him?
Would you try to make him happy, respect him and forgive him for any wrongs he might do?
Along with that, you would have the right to earn and keep your own money and he wouldn't have the right to tell you how to spend it. You could be a millionaire but he would still have the responsibility to pay for all your needs. Doesn't that sound great?
Rasulullah SAW bersabda: "Barangsiapa yang Allah SWT menghendaki kebaikan (Surga) baginya, niscaya ia dibuat pandai dalam ilmu agama." (HR. Al-Bukhari dari Muawiyah)